There are discussions about it as a health treatment, about certain moves, about the use of herbs. Depending what you read it sounds very clinical, very complicated, or the practise of strange religions, perhaps cults.
Then there are the very sexy young escorts who mention lingam massage as part of a long menu of services, pick'n'mix style.
That is why I have gone to great lengths to tell my clients what to expect in my hand, through this blog and my website : www.ukLingamMassage.co.uk
I would describe my session as whole body pampering. The experience will be many things including relaxing, erotic, refreshing. The client lays back to enjoy a whole body massage. There is a neutral, natural oil used, no herbs, no chemicals, no lotion.
There is no religion or spirituality added on to my session - the setting is very neutral. My clients may find & enjoy a spiritual experience, however, due to lengthened stimulation of the senses, which should leave you contented and glad to be alive!