Penis Problems and Massage

 I can't promise that a massage will sooth all your problems away, but whatever issue you may have with your penis, I'll have seen it before. You aren't all that strange.

Sometimes, the problem is all in your head -- the one on top of your shoulders.

I mean, sometimes men think they have a problem just because they don't look like the stud in porn or because they can't perform like they used to when they were 21 years of age.

There are somethings that make you unique and perhaps a quirky unusual penis is one of those things -- that doesn't mean it is a problem. It doesn't have to be a problem unless you let it.

Okay, perhaps you don't want to stand out because of your particular erection -- but it is what it is, so perhaps there are ways to work with what you've got. 

And perhaps it would help if you realised other men have other difficulties to handle.

Here's a list of unique MALEness -- don't let it stop you enjoying your life:

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Common problems that men might experience with their penises, which can make sex difficult or embarrassing and affect their self-confidence:

1. Erectile Dysfunction (ED): Difficulty achieving or maintaining an erection.
2. Premature Ejaculation: Reaching orgasm too quickly during sex.
3. Delayed Ejaculation: Difficulty or inability to reach orgasm and ejaculate.
4. Peyronie's Disease: Development of fibrous scar tissue inside the penis causing curved, painful erections.
5. Phimosis: Inability to retract the foreskin over the glans penis.
6. Penile Cancer: A rare form of cancer affecting the skin or tissues of the penis.
7. Micropenis: An unusually small penis, potentially leading to self-esteem issues.
8. Penile Hypospadias: Birth defect where the urethral opening is not at the tip of the penis, potentially causing functional and cosmetic concerns.
9. Low Libido: Reduced sexual desire.
10. Varicocele: Enlarged veins within the scrotum that can affect testicular function and aesthetics.
11. Penile Sensitivity: Either reduced sensitivity leading to difficulty in achieving orgasm or increased sensitivity leading to discomfort.
12. Aesthetic Concerns: Worries about the appearance of the penis, including size, shape, or skin conditions like warts or moles.
13. Anorgasmia: Difficulty reaching orgasm despite sufficient stimulation.
14. Retrograde Ejaculation: Semen entering the bladder instead of exiting through the penis during ejaculation.
15. Psychological Factors: Anxiety, depression, or other mental health issues affecting sexual performance and confidence.
16. Performance Anxiety: Fear of not performing well sexually, which can lead to ED or other sexual dysfunctions.
17. Penile Trauma: Injury to the penis, which can cause pain, deformity, and difficulty with sexual function.
18. Hormonal Imbalances: Low testosterone levels affecting libido and sexual performance.
19. Penile Curvature: Natural curvature of the penis that might make certain sexual positions difficult or painful.
20. Cultural or Religious Guilt: Feelings of shame or guilt about sexual activity due to cultural or religious beliefs.

Do go seek medical advice when you need it.

* Go see a GP or a nurse.

* If you are not sure then call 111 - it might be easier talking to a stranger over the phone at first.

* Or seek help via the NHS sexual health services NHS sexual health services.