Am I in denial, would I be better off if I didn't do Lingam Massages? Absolutely not, my life would be tougher.
What of the men who pay? They are not some criminal underclass, subset of society. In my experience they are respectful, polite and respectable. Many of them are single. Many of them have no sexual partner. For them, women like myself are providing a vital service that increases self esteem and a sense of mental well being.