For me (and perhaps my clients) the things that I can't relate to on many websites about tantric massage are the comments about
and that sort of thing. I know some would say tantric practise is fundamentally a philosophy that incorporates some elements of those things. They talk about energy but not in the way that I would use this word.
There is a huge gulf.
I am an English woman and my beliefs are fundamentally secular and science based, perhaps reflecting my culture. Energy is something that I was taught in physics lessons and is all about the movements of atoms (from what I remember).
If the philosophy and language of the spiritual approach appeal to you that is fine - it depends what you are looking for. I believe the experience you can have in a session without the religious esoteric baggage can be equally as good. In fact, people with strong views on these things can be completely turned of by the spiritual language. Please do not introduce me a Goddess!
You have such wonderful feelings in and after a tantric session and the reason can be explained with modern science (if you need a reason).
You can achieve the experience with or without bringing a philosophy or religious dogma to the table. Let me know if you would like more on the scientific approach to tantric massage....
Deb of Lingam & Yoni Massage, Kent UK