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I am a lady in my 50s. I enjoy giving erotic massages to mature clients. I've relocated to the Cheshire area, near M6, Stoke-on-Trent, The Peak District, and Crewe. Appointments are at my therapy studio at it's High Street location near j16 of M6. Bookings in advance via my website: link is below Car Park What 3 Words: intersect.public.link

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Wednesday, 11 June 2025

Sensual Massage, Grief and Guilt

Grief is a shape-shifter. It can arrive like a tidal wave, or move in quietly and settle into the corners of your life. 

It can make everything feel tight, or numb, or unbearably tender.

Grief is exhausting. And it’s lonely. Even when others try to offer comfort, there are parts of loss that can’t be touched by words.

But sometimes, they can be touched by touch.


Grief Lives in the Body

When you’re grieving—whether the loss is fresh or years old—you may notice:

  • A tight chest, as though holding back tears

  • Slumped posture, as if carrying invisible weight

  • Shallow breathing or sighing often

  • Difficulty sleeping, digesting, or simply being still

  • A sense that your body is “not yours” or disconnected

These are physical expressions of sorrow. And they’re normal. Your body remembers. It holds the ache even when your mind tries to move forward.

Massage gives that ache somewhere to go.


What Massage Offers in Times of Grief

🌿 Permission to feel without explaining.
In massage, you don’t have to describe your grief or narrate your pain. You just get to be there, held in stillness, and maybe for the first time—feel what’s under the surface.

🌿 A place to rest.
Grief is exhausting. Massage creates a quiet, safe space to stop holding it all together. To lie down and let someone else support you, even for a little while.

🌿 Gentle reconnection with your body.
Grief can make you feel far away from yourself. Touch, especially from a grounded and sensitive practitioner, helps bring you back—back to your breath, your skin, your heartbeat.

🌿 Support for the nervous system.
Massage calms the sympathetic (stress) response and activates the parasympathetic (rest) system. This shift alone can help reduce feelings of overwhelm, insomnia, and emotional exhaustion.


Crying Is Welcome

Sometimes some people cry during a massage—especially when grieving. This can catch people off guard, but it’s perfectly okay. Some therapists call it an “emotional release.” Others just call it healing.

A trauma-informed therapist will never rush you or make you feel embarrassed. They know the body lets go in its own time.

Your tears are not an inconvenience. They are sacred.


A Massage for the Spirit, Too

Grief changes us. It can leave us raw, cracked open, disoriented. Massage won’t fix that. But it can sit quietly beside it. It can be the warm hands that say, “You are not alone.” It can be the first deep breath you’ve taken in days.

Some people describe massage during grief as a kind of prayer. A space where nothing is expected and everything is held.

You don’t have to be “over it” to deserve comfort.
You don’t have to be okay to be touched with care.

You don’t have to feel guilty for seeking comfort.




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